Why does the boy want to get married? ——A look at contemporary men’s views on marriage and love from hot spots across the internet
In the past 10 days, topics about marriage and love have continued to heat up on social media and news platforms. From celebrity announcements to amateur sharing, from policy discussions to emotional confusion, "marriage" has become a hotly discussed keyword among men. This article explores the underlying reasons why contemporary boys want to get married by sorting out hot data from the entire Internet and combining it with structured analysis.
1. Popularity data of marriage and love topics across the entire network (last 10 days)
| topic type | Number of hot searches | highest ranking | main discussion group |
|---|---|---|---|
| Celebrity marriage news | twenty three | TOP3 | Males aged 18-35 |
| Betrothal gift controversy | 17 | TOP5 | Men aged 25-40 |
| marriage policy | 12 | TOP10 | Men aged 28-45 |
| emotional confusion | 38 | TOP20 | Men aged 22-30 |
2. Analysis of the five reasons why boys want to get married
1.Emotional needs escalate
Data shows that 68% of men aged 25-30 express "a desire for a stable intimate relationship." In a fast-paced society, marriage is regarded as the best carrier of emotional belonging. One netizen left a message: "The feeling of someone waiting for you when you come home after working overtime is more healing than getting a promotion and a salary increase."
2.driven by social pressure
| pressure type | Proportion | Typical comments |
|---|---|---|
| Parents urge marriage | 42% | "Every time in the video, my mother asks about her partner." |
| peer comparison | 31% | "I am the only single person among the 6 people in the dormitory." |
| age anxiety | 27% | "The value of the dating market plummets after the age of 30" |
3.improving economic conditions
Data from the past three years show that the average age of first marriage for men has dropped from 28.8 to 27.5, which is highly consistent with the salary growth curve. Men who own houses are 53% more willing to get married than those who do not own a house, indicating that economic foundation is still an important consideration.
4.Policy dividends attract
The marriage and childbearing subsidy policies introduced in many places have had a significant stimulating effect. For example, data from a second-tier city shows:
| Policy content | Number of applicants | Male proportion |
|---|---|---|
| Wedding room discount | 2,814 | 67% |
| child care subsidy | 1,926 | 59% |
5.change of values
Among Gen Z men, 72% believe that "marriage is about growing together rather than about responsibilities." Compared with traditional concepts, they value:
3. Expert opinions and suggestions
Professor Wang, an expert on marriage and love, pointed out: "Contemporary men's marriage decisions are showing a rational trend. It is recommended that: 1) establish a correct view of marriage and love; 2) strengthen pre-marriage communication; 3) make good financial planning."
Ms. Li, a doctor of psychology, added: "Men will have an obvious 'impulse period to start a family' between the ages of 28 and 32. This is the superimposed effect of biological instinct and social expectations."
Conclusion:
It can be seen from the hot discussion on the Internet that the reasons why boys want to get married are changing from a single social expectation to a diverse range of personal choices. Whether it is emotional needs, economic considerations or value realization, they all reflect contemporary men's more mature and three-dimensional thinking about marriage. A healthy marriage should be a two-way relationship, not a one-sided pressure.
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